Are you frustrated with why he just doesn’t “get it “, when to you it seems like common sense? Are you tired of his lack of empathy to understand where you’re coming from as you continue to get hurt over and over again? Maybe you’re just completely baffled on why he chooses to do the things that he does, when you can see that obviously he’s making the wrong choice. 

Who is the most ideal guide for you in navigating the rocky roads of a relationship and coming out on the other side successfully? One of your girlfriends who doesn’t understand what it is to be a man with many complex inner struggles? Maybe a therapist or a counselor who’s going to give you countless one size fits all theories and practices not tailored to your exact needs? Or another man who has no real point of reference for what your man is going through, who hasn’t dealt with exactly what your man is struggling with and found a way out? 

Many women struggle in relationships trying desperately to understand a man who in many cases is struggling to better understand himself and his life journey. Navigating a relationship with ourselves alone is complex business, let alone attempting to navigate the inner world of two partners simultaneously. When youre looking to not only understand, but to inner-stand where your man is coming from, where he’s at, what he’s struggling with, thinking and what he is likely moving towards, it’s best to consult with someone who’s been in the darkness. Someone who’s been lost, been confused, been in the thick of the struggle, falling down over and over and over again. Yet kept getting back up and trying again and again and again until he was met with success and the rewards of making it to the other side. The choice is yours, always.

My name is Kiko Ellsworth, and I’ve been that lost man lost in darkness for well over three decades struggling to find his way out. And by the sheer dedication of my god-given soul to know myself, I’ve broken free of many illusions we all have to work through in this world and I’m here to support you to success in your relationship. I’m here to support you in navigating the complex territory of your relationship with your man. 

  • • I will help you reconnect to your intuition & uncover your deepest truth about your own needs in the relationship.
  • • I will help you to relax into your feminine power while being more influential in your relationship.
  • • I’ll support you to be heard in the relationship so that your deepest needs can be met.
  • I’ll help you to set healthy boundaries so you will stop getting hurt, while he becomes more responsive to the needs of everyone in the relationship. 
  • • I will guide you in truly innerstanding your man, why he does what he does, what can inspire him to do more, and be more empathetic and attuned with his actions towards you. 
  • • I will identify where he may be blocked within himself that’s likely to be holding the relationship back and how to transform it.
  • • I will work with you so that the environment of your relationship will be a fertile ground for growth for both of you.
  • • I will help you stand in your power as you express your boundaries, with clarity, fierceness & love.
  • • I will hold a strong, conscious, safe space for you to grow in expressing yourself fully.
  • • I will shine a light on the inner workings of your energy & heart to help you see what your motives are and to take ownership over how you are showing up for yourself & your relationship.
  • • I will keep you accountable to following through with what you say you need so you don’t regress back to old unhealthy patterns.
  • • I will consistently remind you of the love you truly deserve, and help you drop deeper into that sacred space within yourself.
  • • I will also help you to Innerstand your man and how you need to show up in the relationship so he can become the man he was meant to be: for himself, for you, and for the world.

I will help you to authentically re-establish your alignment in self and your faith in men.

Click on the Package or Subscription that you are interested in to schedule a 30-minute breakthrough call.

(You will only be asked to pay, after the call, if we choose to work together.)


From a man who held resentment and intense anger in his heart towards his father. To a man who now has complete peace in his relationship with his father after 30 years of conscious effort.

From a man who was incapable of properly showing up in every way in his marriage. To a man who actively supports his former wife on her new paths in life, current relationship, while transitioning their relationship into a deep authentic platonic friendship for their daughter to witness and actively still be a part of. 

From a man unable to identify and communicate his emotions authentically in a relationship. To a man who’s able to initiate deep productive interactions that are valuable for everyone.

From a man who lived a life built off of pure ego, control, fear, force and insecurity. To a man who lives a life built off of pure spirit, trust, intuition, balance and moderation.

From a man, a bachelor living the fast life unfaithfully dating multiple women simultaneously. To a man fully present to give his undivided attention, love and respect to one relationship, one woman at a time until their relationship is fully complete.

From a man living the fast life going in all the most unproductive directions.  To a man living clearly, securely, passionately in his souls mission.

From a man unaware, and insensitive to a woman’s deepest needs. To a man able to empathize, highly tuned in to his queens energy, mental, emotional and physical needs and desires.

From a man with a very adolescent review on romance. To a man with an ever evolving, mature relationship to romance and it’s deeper beneficial values.

From a man who woke up confused on a daily basis as to the direction of his life. To a man who wakes up every day routinely clear on his life purpose, direction and those who mean the most to him.

From a man sloppily confused on how to express his life’s mission. To a man who has a highly refined, ever-evolving daily process to fulfill his soul’s mission.

From a man who could barely see past a woman’s outer physical attractiveness. To a man who sees underneath the sexuality of a woman, deeply into the primal Relationship of their creative friendship.

From a man who was quick to anger and frustration. To a man with ever deepening patience and the ability to think clearly before making any sort of irrational response.

From a man who lived a life unable to see and appreciate the true value of a woman. To a man who sees and champions the many divine and powerful aspects of a woman able to see her beauty from the inside out and provide a protective space for all females spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically. 

From a man who worked out hours a day in the gym focusing on building his physical strength. To a man spending hours a day meditating, practicing yoga and other inner work to strengthen his inner bodies.

From a man who was in capable of being mentally and emotionally and spiritually present as a father. To a man who Is continually evolving to be a magnificent father as well as learning how to better invest in his relationship with his child.

From a man who was unable to see the value in himself and his body and mind. To a man who is very mindful of where he spends his time, who he spends his time with and what he expends his energy on.

From a man who was a thief for the better part of the first 25 years of his life. To a man who lives a life dedicated to integrity, generosity, and honor for our creator and all of humanity.

From a man who woke up late each morning and jumped on the computer to check emails first thing. To a man who gets up before the sunrise with a powerful spiritual life practice to springboard each day.

From a man who ate meat multiple times a day who didn’t consider a meal, a real meal, unless it had meat on the plate. To a man who’s food intake is all plant-based, organic, and superfoods while loving all veggies without judgement.

From a man who was addicted to sugar, honey, juice and anything sweet. To a man who has rediscovered his natural taste palette to enjoy foods how they were meant to be appreciated. 

From a man who ritually would get drunk before going out on the town. To a man who has the highest high off of pure life, no liquor required.

From a man who was biologically compelled to pro-actively pursue a woman sexually who he thought was attractive. To a man who’s overcome his lower animal nature and interact with all women from his highest self while allowing the animal nature in him to follow behind.

From a man who smoked marijuana regularly.  To a man who was able to use his natural tools for his creativity and growth instead.

and more challenges, learning, growing and transformation to come.